Man is a social animal and ever since the existence of life in nature, human beings are in constant relationship with the Earth and among themselves. Communication has developed so much in recent times. It is more convenient now as compared to the ancient times to communicate with people and exchange emotions. Change or development which is probably intended to unite and bring everyone together has done the reverse in a few cases.
"Relationships" - the one that matters to us the most. Our complaints and reasons are never ending. We justify it by saying that we are humans and hence we are meant to be imperfect. Yet we are out on a hunt for "a perfect living". Tis' such a vague deed! Surely one has time for introspection and to build a little bit of equanimity to balance life.
How difficult is it to find happiness? Does anyone know where happiness lies. The answer is yes. We all know it but some of us never let it out. Most of us find contentment in having interactions with people who really mean a lot to us. Relations are an important aspect.
It is said that today we all have become so busy that we don't have time for our loved ones. But I completely disagree with the statement. I do admit that life is getting tough but we all do think about people who hold a place in our lives. May be while travelling, walking, listening to music or doing any sort of work. We all do think about them. But savagely, it is rightly said that we take for granted the things, for which we should express the most of our gratitude. We carry our own set of emotions, the only thing that makes the difference is that they are not expressed and even if they are conveyed they are taken for granted. Everybody searches for happiness, everyone knows where their happiness lies but the surprising part is still we are unhappy. Here some of us may think that happiness comes from inside and not from any person but what i am trying to show here is that pampering has weakened us to such an extent that we have become dependent on other human beings for our happiness. May be humans are designed to be so and it states the importance of socialism. I wonder what stops people- ego, fear or false perceptions. It is difficult to believe but most of us are living in false perceptions we build based on a few incidents. Whatever it may be we never realize what prize we are paying unless it is lost.
Life never stops...it moves on...no matter if we are happy or sad... You define it by the relationship that matters to you the most...Unfortunately time has nothing to do with it. It will pass. People have lost their whole world and still they are just doing fine. You still breathe, you still eat, you still work, you still continue making bonds, you still study. Even if you regret or miss anything, it pays nothing. You have to even if you don't want to. People come and go, its about who chooses to stay and who leaves by choice. You can only control it to a certain extent. You are better at dry sadness than at cold anger. Pain, anger, grief...everything is just so temporary. All you can do is never stop expressing your love... Because how you define your life is how the relationship that matters to you the most goes on....:)
"Relationships" - the one that matters to us the most. Our complaints and reasons are never ending. We justify it by saying that we are humans and hence we are meant to be imperfect. Yet we are out on a hunt for "a perfect living". Tis' such a vague deed! Surely one has time for introspection and to build a little bit of equanimity to balance life.
How difficult is it to find happiness? Does anyone know where happiness lies. The answer is yes. We all know it but some of us never let it out. Most of us find contentment in having interactions with people who really mean a lot to us. Relations are an important aspect.
It is said that today we all have become so busy that we don't have time for our loved ones. But I completely disagree with the statement. I do admit that life is getting tough but we all do think about people who hold a place in our lives. May be while travelling, walking, listening to music or doing any sort of work. We all do think about them. But savagely, it is rightly said that we take for granted the things, for which we should express the most of our gratitude. We carry our own set of emotions, the only thing that makes the difference is that they are not expressed and even if they are conveyed they are taken for granted. Everybody searches for happiness, everyone knows where their happiness lies but the surprising part is still we are unhappy. Here some of us may think that happiness comes from inside and not from any person but what i am trying to show here is that pampering has weakened us to such an extent that we have become dependent on other human beings for our happiness. May be humans are designed to be so and it states the importance of socialism. I wonder what stops people- ego, fear or false perceptions. It is difficult to believe but most of us are living in false perceptions we build based on a few incidents. Whatever it may be we never realize what prize we are paying unless it is lost.
Life never stops...it moves on...no matter if we are happy or sad... You define it by the relationship that matters to you the most...Unfortunately time has nothing to do with it. It will pass. People have lost their whole world and still they are just doing fine. You still breathe, you still eat, you still work, you still continue making bonds, you still study. Even if you regret or miss anything, it pays nothing. You have to even if you don't want to. People come and go, its about who chooses to stay and who leaves by choice. You can only control it to a certain extent. You are better at dry sadness than at cold anger. Pain, anger, grief...everything is just so temporary. All you can do is never stop expressing your love... Because how you define your life is how the relationship that matters to you the most goes on....:)
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