Comfort- (noun) state or situation in which you are relaxed and do not have any physically unpleasant feelings caused by pain, heat, cold,etc.
Are you comfortable with yourself?What if you are taken out from where you are, lose people whom you love? Will you be able to manage to stay happy? Not wanting other people to validate you? No matter whoever it be- your parents, friends or life partner? How long can anyone wait for validation? How patient can you be? How long can you live in a state of mind- with that wait, that void to be filled?
No matter how hard we try to change somebody's mind, but their soul is something that remains beyond our reach. Each one of us has come for our own journey with a purpose to be served before we die. How about concentrating on that? How about spending time on self- development?How about enriching the mind with beautiful experiences- be it travel or good fictional reads although it is unreal. So what? It does not matter unless it is not intoxicating your soul. Some people are destructive not only towards others but also themselves. Pondering over what anybody commented is a waste. Even if you don't give attention to it, you cannot deny the fact that it leads your actions at times. That may be productive for some people but not for all.You think a job offer from a good company can answer your worthiness? How abrupt is that! Just realize that it will all be useless. They will never give you a ray of hope, sooner or later, you will have to give up. How hard you try, will never be hard enough. Your efforts will only return in disdain.
You are not made up of words that hurt you. Or the expectations that you feel you will never meet. You are made up of nothing more than you. Love yourself. No matter how hard it is, it is not impossible. Get comfortable in this moment. Stop procrastinating or waiting for things to happen even if you are working hard to achieve them. Keep telling yourself that you are intelligent, worthy, desirable, loving, compassionate, inspiring and brave.
We can be with others without using them as means of escape. We can work towards our goals without the urge for validation. We can be happy with what we have.
"You have to find yourself before anyone else can find you, love yourself before you can be loved,believe in your future to be a part of someone's future."
-Unknown
Are you comfortable with yourself?What if you are taken out from where you are, lose people whom you love? Will you be able to manage to stay happy? Not wanting other people to validate you? No matter whoever it be- your parents, friends or life partner? How long can anyone wait for validation? How patient can you be? How long can you live in a state of mind- with that wait, that void to be filled?
No matter how hard we try to change somebody's mind, but their soul is something that remains beyond our reach. Each one of us has come for our own journey with a purpose to be served before we die. How about concentrating on that? How about spending time on self- development?How about enriching the mind with beautiful experiences- be it travel or good fictional reads although it is unreal. So what? It does not matter unless it is not intoxicating your soul. Some people are destructive not only towards others but also themselves. Pondering over what anybody commented is a waste. Even if you don't give attention to it, you cannot deny the fact that it leads your actions at times. That may be productive for some people but not for all.You think a job offer from a good company can answer your worthiness? How abrupt is that! Just realize that it will all be useless. They will never give you a ray of hope, sooner or later, you will have to give up. How hard you try, will never be hard enough. Your efforts will only return in disdain.
You are not made up of words that hurt you. Or the expectations that you feel you will never meet. You are made up of nothing more than you. Love yourself. No matter how hard it is, it is not impossible. Get comfortable in this moment. Stop procrastinating or waiting for things to happen even if you are working hard to achieve them. Keep telling yourself that you are intelligent, worthy, desirable, loving, compassionate, inspiring and brave.
We can be with others without using them as means of escape. We can work towards our goals without the urge for validation. We can be happy with what we have.
"You have to find yourself before anyone else can find you, love yourself before you can be loved,believe in your future to be a part of someone's future."
-Unknown
